Teen Counseling

Adolescence is complicated even when everything is going well. When it’s not, when anxiety, social pressure, academic stress, identity questions, or family conflict are making things harder, a therapist who understands how the teenage brain works can help.

I work with teens (typically ages 14 and up) on everything from everyday stress to more serious concerns like depression, anxiety, social isolation, and family disruption. Sessions are collaborative, not lecture-based. Your teenager won’t be talked at. They’ll be listened to.

What Parents Need to Know

Confidentiality and Your Teen

One of the first questions parents ask is: “Will you tell me what my kid talks about?” Here’s how I handle it, and why.

Under Texas law, parents generally have the right to consent to their child’s mental health treatment and may have access to treatment records. At age 18, teens gain full adult confidentiality rights. For minors under 18, the law allows counselors to provide certain services without parental consent in specific circumstances, including suicide risk, substance abuse, and abuse or neglect (Texas Family Code §32.004). For teens ages 16 and older, Texas Health & Safety Code §572.001 allows them to request outpatient mental health services independently.

In practice, I handle this with a straightforward agreement at the start of therapy: I will always inform you about safety concerns (suicidal thoughts, self-harm, substance use that’s dangerous, abuse). But the content of sessions, what your teen talks about and works through, stays between us. This isn’t about keeping secrets from you. It’s about giving your teenager the safety to be honest, which is the only way therapy actually works.

Most parents find this approach reassuring once they understand the reasoning. If your teen can’t be honest with their therapist, the sessions become performative and nothing changes.

If Your Teen Doesn’t Want to Come

This is common, and it’s usually not about the therapy itself. It’s about the idea of therapy: talking to a stranger about personal things, feeling like something is “wrong” with them, or worrying that the therapist is just going to side with the parents.

I offer a free intro session for teens, separate from the parent consultation. This gives your teenager a chance to meet me, ask questions, and decide for themselves whether this feels like something that could help. There’s no pressure. If they’re not ready, that’s okay. Forcing a teenager into therapy rarely produces good results.

What We’ll Work On

Common issues in teen counseling include:

• Anxiety, worry, and overthinking
• Depression, low motivation, and emotional withdrawal
• Social pressure, bullying, and friendship dynamics
• Academic stress and performance pressure
• Identity questions (who am I, what do I believe, where do I fit)
• Parent-teen conflict and communication breakdowns
• Divorce and family transitions
• Self-esteem and self-worth
• Navigating social media and technology
• College preparation stress

For Teens

If you’re reading this yourself, here’s what you should know: therapy is a conversation, not a lecture. I’m not going to tell you what to do or side with your parents. I’m not going to make you talk about things you’re not ready to talk about. And nothing you say leaves the room unless you or somebody you talk about is in danger, or if ordered by a court.

You might be here because your parents want you to come. That’s okay. A lot of my clients started that way. What I’d ask is this: give it one session. If it doesn’t feel useful, you can say so. If you want to come back, we’ll keep going. If you don’t, we’ll figure out what to do from there.

If you want to talk to me before deciding, I offer a free intro conversation just for you, no parents in the room. Reach out or call (512) 771-7621.

My Approach with Teens

I don’t treat teenagers like small adults or like fragile beings who need to be handled carefully. I treat them like people who are dealing with real things and who deserve to be taken seriously.

My approach uses Solution-Focused Therapy as the foundation: we focus on what’s already working, what a slightly better life looks like, and practical steps to get there. I also draw from CBT and DBT, which are particularly effective for teens dealing with anxiety, emotional intensity, and the black-and-white thinking that’s developmentally normal in adolescence.

I keep parents in the loop about progress and general direction without violating the teen’s trust. Regular check-ins with parents (with the teen’s awareness) help ensure everyone is aligned.

Virtual Teen Counseling Across Texas

All sessions are available via secure, HIPAA-compliant video or telephone for anyone in Texas. Most teens actually prefer virtual sessions because they’re in their own space and the format feels more natural to a generation that grew up communicating through screens.

Ready to start? Schedule a consultation or call (512) 771-7621.

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